Stand Out In Her Eyes With These Amazing First Date Ideas


When planning for first date, most men end up with cliched movie or dinner dates. Well, at least I did.

To be honest, it was one of the shittiest dates I’ve even been to.

But that was a long time ago. I’ve evolved from those silence filled movie theater dates to amazing fun and laughter filled dates.

And even you don’t want to be the average joe who takes her to boring restaurants.

The first date is all about conversation and bonding. And if you play your cards well, you even get to take her home.

Most of the times, it's a make-it-or-break-it evening.

You gotta think outside the box have some other creative options that will set a more inviting mood for her!

So I’ve come up with ideas that would make your first date an awesome experience.

Here you go:

Take her to a zoo or an aquarium: 

Who doesn't like to watch those aquatic animals doing their tricks or looking at those cuddly animals! Just make sure you go to the zoo or the aquarium at a time when there’s less of a crowd.


Head to the local flea market:

Women love shopping and and they love the flea markets. Even if she hasn't been to one, it will be an amazing experience for her.

You will find conversation starters everywhere! You can pick up anything and build a funny story around it!

I once picked up a box that looked like a treasure chest and told her it was my treasure chest from past life when I used to be a pirate named ‘killer duck’.

It doesn’t have to make sense.

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Go Play Mini Golf:

Go to a driving range and hit a few balls. Even if you guys don’t know how to play it, go and have fun. Make fun of the game and do all the stupid shit you can.

That's a long drive, mate!

It is a fun way to get to know each other. You can act like a golf pro and give her golf lessons!

Like you can get behind her and and take a pose as if you are going to teach her and then whisper in her ear, ‘this is how people who don’t know how to play golf come close to a girl’ and laugh about it. 

Play Arcade Games:

For those with an adventurous spirit, get to know your date over an adrenaline-racing round of arcade games. 

You can tease her, challenge her, or team up against someone in a game of Foosball. Arcade games get your adrenaline pumping and brings you two closer! 

Go to a Planetarium:

If you want to spend some quality time in a dark place but don’t want the place to be a movie theater, take her to a planetarium for stargazing! 

The cozy environment of planetarium is perfect with a lot of potential for hand holding and stealing kisses which will bring you to a lot closer.

Make it a Sports Day: 

Want to make your date really stand out? Include a session of light sports before the date night. Indulge in an outdoorsy game of badminton or beach volleyball.

Damn those skills 😉

If it gets too hot out, retreat indoors for some board games or ping pong.

This date is going to make you stand out and it will be a very different experience for the girl.

Go for a Bike Ride:

If both of you are into riding bikes, you can plan a date of trailing through a park of scenic areas where you can ride leisurely and chat up while riding.

But not like this though 😛

You can even race in between to make it more fun and you can end it with wine and dine if you want.

Visit a Carnival, Fair or Theme Park:

We're all kids trapped in adult bodies! Sometimes it doesn't hurt to have a 'movie type' date. So go ahead and buy tickets for a carnival.

I know where your eyes are at 😀

Embrace the cheesiness - share cotton candy, try to win a prize for her and if you fail, be dramatic about it!, Ride the ferris wheel or a roller coaster and the other gut wrenching rides - they will bring you a lot closer than you can imagine!

It's a great way to get to know each other while having fun at the same time.

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Go Rock Climbing:

Think you’re adventurous?

Tell her that it is her ultimate ‘survival test’ to see if you guys can be together! And take her rock climbing.

It will be amazing experience. There's nothing like being suspended from great heights on a harness while you're clinging on for dear life!

They see me climbin, they hatin.

Go Go-Karting:

Get your dose of adrenaline by challenging your date to a race at the go-kart circuit.

Show off how well you've mastered those hairpin turns and laugh at the moments where one of you ends up crashing straight into a wall.

The papa of modern drifting!

Intentionally bump into her to make it more fun and brag about how good you are; in a fun way!

Go Skating:

Be it ice skating or roller skating, no one was born with the skill to balance on them.

Avail that opportunity to take her to a skating rink and have fun.

If you don’t know how to skate, the numerous times you both fall together will bring you a lot closer!

And watching people falling while skating is funny too 😉

As long as you don’t try to be all macho while wearing skates and remember to not take yourself too seriously, you’ll be fine.

Become a Tourist:

If you live in a city, you can plan a date where you go around the city as a tourist.

Take a food tour of an unexplored neighborhood or go with certain scenic sights in mind.

Let the love blossom <3

You can also behave as if you are from some exotic country and talk to your date in that accent to make this experience more fun.

This kind of a date will provide plenty of opportunities to learn more about each other.

Go on a Hike:

Hikes give you perfect conversation opportunity, giving you quiet, private space to get to know each other.

It is a great date idea but it is not for everyone. Try to find out the fitness level of your date and set up the hike accordingly.

There's your blue riding hood!

If you are not sure, then make it a casual stroll through picturesque fields so that it is not too physically draining for her.

Go Shopping:

Yes, go shopping for clothes and make her try a few outfits. Both of you can get all dressed up and pose in front of mirror.

You can chose a really absurd outfit for her, like orange top, yellow pants and green shoes!

Make sure you don’t choose any revealing dresses else you will come off as a pervert!

Don't let her go overboard though.

You can also initiate a roleplay of husband and wife while shopping.

Overall it is a quirky idea that she won’t be expecting as a first date but it will be shit loads of fun.

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Battle Her in a Laser Tag or Paintball Arena:

Or team up against someone. It is sure shot way to get her indulged into the date and have fun. You can cheat, make her a target and annoy her or anything else that’s fun.

You could role play and be mercenaries taking revenge or humans trying to defend from the aliens (other players) who’ve invaded the planet.

There are a lots of opportunities after such dates. You can order a takeaway, head home and cuddle afterwards.

Visit a Psychic:

Ok, this may be a little bit more out of the box, but it will certainly ensure you have plenty to talk about.

Rule 101 : Never make the psychic mad!

Plus, you can find pretty cheap places to keep the date super affordable. Just make sure you don’t dive into your love lives as first date may be a tad bit too soon for that.

Look Up for Events In Your City:

Go through the internet and look up for events in your city.

Are there any music concerts going on or movie screenings in parking lots? Any good sports event going on? Any fun stand-ups or open mics?

Anything of your interest is cool. Take her for a ride and show her your true fun personality.

She will love your passion for things and it will bring you way closer.

Go For It …

These ideas are a good place to start but keep a lookout for any other interesting date ideas that you might come up with.

I suggest you write them down in an app like Evernote so you don’t have to come up with spontaneous ideas every time you want to take a girl on a fun date.

Have fun 😉


Dating Coach by profession. Writer by heart. Amitoj spends his free time gobbling on chicken wings and convincing people that he's a reincarnation of Shakespeare.


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